A person of Tamil ethnicity who exerts controlling or mesmeric influence on another person which enables them to completely dominate the other person.
George: Who is that gorgeous Tamil woman?
Jerry: Her name is Niranjana.
George: Why do you allow her to totally dominate you?
Jerry: I can’t resist her, it’s like she has a mental hold on me.
George: She’s a svenkolly!
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.