In music, a note that plays for an extremely long time, and you keep wishing that it would end so the song can move on.
At the concert, Kenny played a note on his saxophone that lasted over a minute! What a staydown! I was glad that it played for only a few seconds the second time he played it!
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.