Shelf Gay 

A gay guy who looks similar/ has a similar height/ build/ personality/ category to another gay guy.

If these two gays were food products in a supermarket, they would be found in the same aisle and, depending on how similar they are, the same shelf, due to being virtually the same product.

These gay people will typically have the same guys go for each them, and will often compete for the same guys in return, which typically creates an unspoken rivalry between the two of them.

ANOTHER one of my exes has been going out with that James guy again. That James is SUCH a shelf gay omgggg sksksksks

Shelf Gay by MsnFrancis October 25, 2019

self-gay

1. Extreme narcissism, self-love, conceit.
2. Condition in which persons are literally in love with themselves and/or are primarily attracted to qualities in others that they themselves possess.
3. Mental state in which one's perception of reality is warped by self-obsession. The world exists only as a reflection of the self.

Also: One who places unusually high value on one's own opinions, appearance, and personality.

Paris Hilton is so self-gay she can't conceive of a guy who wouldn't want to sleep with her or a girl who wouldn't want to be her.

self-gay by Larissa and Adam November 15, 2005

Self-gay

The act of sucking one's own dick or pleasuring your own anal cavity.

"I'm tired of not getting my dick blown , so I'm going to suck myself off".

"Yo bro, that shit is self-gay".

Self-gay by Chuchinkuchu August 18, 2017

self-gay

1. Extreme narcissism, self-love, conceit.
2. Condition in which persons are primarily attracted to qualities in others that they themselves possess.

Also: One who places unusually high value on one's own opinions, appearance, and personality.

Although Adam is obsessed with himself, he concedes that Larissa is even more self-gay than he is.

self-gay by Larissa and Adam December 17, 2005

Self dick loving gay 

A man who records themselves having sex and then goes back and watches coz they love their own dick so much

You’d watch your own porn. Your such a self dick loving gay

Self dick loving gay by Nowivehearditall September 18, 2021