A disease in men where a situation causes them fear and/or to wimp-out. This disease is common in pussies, wimps, wussies, and scaredy-cats. The only cure is a kick in the ass.
You really can't call him and tell him the truth? I know what you have, you are suffering from pussionitis. Try seeing a doctor, but once you get it you will most likely have it forever. Sorry!