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pretenemy 

Pretenemies act as if they dislike each other, when really, that isn't the case. It can be ambiguous, at times, as to just how fictitious the mutual dislike is or isn't.

Pretenemy is a portmanteau of "pretend" and "enemy."

Contrast with frenemy (friend and enemy), in which case there is definitely a genuine measure of emnity. Both frenemies and pretenemies, however, are friends on some level.
Example 1:

I'm pretty sure David and myself are pretenemies. We argue a lot but there is no real anger or disagreement, and we consider it entertaining. At least, I do...

Example 2:

Me: "I have an example in mind: 'But isn't Quinn just your pretenemy?'
"'No, he has no pretenemies. Everyone actually hates him.'"

David: "But you don't know Quinn has no pretenemies for a fact."

Me: "It doesn't matter, it's Urban Dictionary. It's an example."

David: "Then it's a dictionary, it has to be accurate."

Me: "This is why we're pretenemies."
pretenemy by A. Penner February 26, 2010

pretenemy 

pl. pretenemies

similar in origin to the word frenemies, a pretenemy is a complex relationship in which one (or both) parties pretend to hate eachother either due to social standards or for monetary gain.
Rachel: Hey Amy isn't that that chick you hate?
Amy: Oh no, she's just my pretenemy.
pretenemy by ahryc January 17, 2009

Pretendergy 

Pretendergy; "Pretending to have energy" Running on fumes from staying up all night, And pretending it didn't happen the next day at a family dinner.
I am actually exhausted this is just Pretendergy
Pretendergy by Flying squirrel October 16, 2017
Word of the Day on October 17, 2017

pretenderly

someone that isnt who they say they are
That girl was trying to be someone else. She was pretenderly acting like Britney Spears
pretenderly by msu1217 October 2, 2007

Prestonergy 

An overload of energy gained by being in the presence of a guy named Preston.
Wow! I can't believe how much Prestonergy I have tonight!
Prestonergy by Mrs Mac Gregor October 7, 2016
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