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Mental/Emotional Sadomasochism; related to BDSM, a type of kink
My partner and I are really into MESM. I love it when they humiliate me!
MESM by SweetMalady March 13, 2022
Urban Dictionary Merch
An acronym for My Eternal Soul Mate. This term was invented by R.E. to demonstrate his love for his beautiful wife, G.E. He felt the need to express this love in an acronym, plus he needed to +1 her use of loml.
G.E. "I love you loml"
R.E. "I love you more mesm, and if you say you love me more that means you hate me!"
MESM by Money$hot September 8, 2016

mesmerizing 

When you can't take your eyes off of something or a person
mesmerizing by Becky August 12, 2004

Mesmerize 

Something that is Fascinating.

1) The words that are wonderful to you.

2) The looks of someone that appeal to you.
3) Amazing words.
1)Your messages mesmerize me.
2)She looks mesmerizing in that dress.
3)The way he talks mesmerizes me.
Mesmerize by Stephanie January 1, 2005

mesmerthighsed 

when you are mesmerised by a guys/girls thighs
'oh my god look at his thighs, i'm literally mesmerthighsed'
mesmerthighsed by RedCherryJo January 20, 2021

mesmorising 

Mesmorising is a common mistake of mesmerising. Mesmerising mean to be in the act of gaining the complete attention of someone. (British/Australian English)
He was mesmorising (mesmerising) his boss.
mesmorising by MultipliedCombo November 20, 2013

Mesmonia 

Mental illness in which you are attracted to ugly things/people.
‘OMG! He’s so ugly! Why the heck do I like him still?!’
‘You must have mesmonia!’
Mesmonia by 420baconqueen July 29, 2018
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You met me at a very Chinese time in my life

A moment in time where you feel distinctly Chinese over all other things.
Dante: "I wish I could be Nigerian, but I can't because I'm Chinese. You met me at a very Chinese time in my life."
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Also used to describe establishments where alternative foods and products are sold, i.e. natural food stores.

Modified derivative of granola.
"I need more crunchy guys in my life. I'm so tired of dating preppy metrosexual assholes."

"I'm heading out to the crunchy store to pick up some fair trade chocolate and tea tree oil, do you need anything?"
crunchy by EBC July 11, 2007
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Galantir by Ge-sus September 22, 2026
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murderhobo 

In a tabletop game, a murderhobo is a player who murders NPCs indiscriminately. This is normally derogatory, referring to a player who totally ignores quests, dialog, backstory, trade, world building etc.

The term is most common with Dungeons and Dragons, but it can be applied to most RPGs where the player is allowed to kill most quest-giving NPCs and NPC traders. E.g. Elder Scrolls, Fallout, Divinity original sin.
DM: The sad little orphan girl tugs at Steve's trenchcoat to get his attention, and ask for help saving her pet dog from...
Steve: I'd like to roll a strength check against strangling the orphan.
Dave: I call dibs on the dog.
DM: You murderhobos disgust me.
murderhobo by Loup&S September 9, 2021
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In sales terms, a whale is a prospect that is significantly larger than an organization’s average customer.

Whales are large and extremely difficult to close. Due to their immense size, they are highly sought-after.

A whale is typically identified at first by a whale hunter on the sales team, but often requires cross-discipline participation in order to close; this includes assistance from operations, engineering, creative, client success, and business development teams.
"Shit...the sales director chewed me out on the sales call this morning. He's totally pissed that I have nothing in my pipeline. I've been focused on this one whale for so long that I haven't had time to prospect for normal-sized deals."
Whale by FQ_GFY February 3, 2020
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