An old war general with severe CPTSD. She has been through a lifetime of abuse, neglect, trauma, and abandonment, so trying to tell her how big your body parts are isn'
t going to mean shit to her. She needs a friend. Not someone to go on and on about their self. No one wants to get to know her or be a friend to her. Guys will message her every once in a while saying that they will be there for her and want to be friends with her, but guys don'
t know how to be a friend to a girl, they just disappear when they find out you aren'
t interested in them as more than that, and you never hear from them again. Or they aren'
t capable of being a friend to you, or even a good person, if they have a girlfriend.
She doesn't like dating or romance. She doesn'
t want any of it. She doesn'
t feel like there is anyone who she would really relate to in certain ways. Doesn't give a
single fuck what you do in your sheets/
bed. Doesn'
t want to hear that kind of shit. Her
definition of a "freak in the sheets" is building a tent with someone as equally weird as she is and then sitting inside of it being a weirdo. Don'
t ask her what she's wearing unless you want to
get added to her collection of guys who have asked her that. Basically, if you are a
pervert, leave her alone.
If all this seems intimidating, don'
t let it. She is stern and serious, not mean. Though, those who don'
t know the difference might mistake them for the same thing. She is as soft as people come, just don'
t ever mistake that for weak; because she won'
t threaten to put a boot up your rear, she'll just do it.
M.K.