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a lesbian that uses he/him pronouns
cis person: he's a hesbian? doesn't that just make him a straight guy? 😡😡
person with at least 10 oz of brain: uhh, last time i checked, pronouns don't always equal gender? that's not a man? how did you get into my house?
hesbian by k66gunso September 12, 2020
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a label used by lesbians who use he/him pronouns. hesbians can use other pronouns alongside he/him such as they/them, she/her or even neopronouns if they wish. some hesbians consider themselves non-binary, whereas others are comfortable being cis- and some hesbians even being trans women/transfem.

being a lesbian and also using he/him can be used to alleviate a disconnect from womanhood, used for gender non conforming/drag, just for the fun of it and more. there is no “right” way to be a hesbian.

hesbian is a beautiful term and all those who identify as one are valid and deserve love. go hug a local hesbian today!
person a: wait... if you use he/him and are masc presenting, are u a trans guy?
person b: nope, im a hesbian! i can understand the confusion though.
person a: oh okay, thank you for telling me!
hesbian by stuglies October 3, 2020
lesbian with he/him pronouns
hesbians ARE valid
hesbian by howellovebot September 25, 2020
a lesbian who uses he/him pronouns

often invalidated by gatekeeping bigots who think pronouns = gender and unable to let others be happy
hesbian: hey i'm a wlw but i use he/him i hope that's alright
she/her lesbian: that's fine with me, your identity, your choice :)
hesbian by lunalucifer666 October 12, 2020
when lesbian(s) give up there erotic ways.
Rachel and Jenny used to be lezbians but now they have gone there separate ways. Now they are a couple of hazbians.
hazbian by Kenton the Lover January 11, 2009
A woman or non-binary person who uses he/him pronouns and is a lesbian. They are not men. Lesbians who use these pronouns may have a disconnect with womanhood. Pronouns do not necessarily mean gender. You are allowed to use whatever pronouns make you comfortable. Stop gatekeeping identities and lesbianism. Hesbians and theysbians are valid.
Person 1: Sarah is a Hesbian.
Person 2: What is that?
Person 1: He is a lesbian who uses he/him pronouns and you should respect his identity.
Hesbian by sapphic6000 September 26, 2020