a label used by lesbians who use he/him pronouns. hesbians can use other pronouns alongside he/him such as they/them, she/her or even neopronouns if they wish. some hesbians consider themselves non-binary, whereas others are comfortable being cis- and some hesbians even being trans women/transfem.
being a lesbian and also using he/him can be used to alleviate a disconnect from womanhood, used for gender non conforming/drag, just for the
fun of it and more. there is no β
rightβ way to be a hesbian.
hesbian is a
beautiful term and all those who identify as
one are valid and deserve love. go hug a local hesbian today!
person a: wait... if you use he/him and are masc presenting, are u a
trans guy?
person b: nope, im a hesbian! i can understand the
confusion though.
person a: oh okay, thank you for telling me!