A woman or non-binary person who uses he/him pronouns and is a lesbian. They are not men. Lesbians who use these pronouns may have a disconnect with womanhood. Pronouns do not necessarily mean gender. You are allowed to use whatever pronouns make you comfortable. Stop gatekeeping identities and lesbianism. Hesbians and theysbians are valid.
Person 1: Sarah is a Hesbian.
Person 2: What is that?
Person 1: He is a lesbian who uses he/him pronouns and you should respect his identity.
Person 2: What is that?
Person 1: He is a lesbian who uses he/him pronouns and you should respect his identity.
by sapphic6000 September 26, 2020
Get the Hesbian mug.A straight man with soft gay tendencies who would, had not the fit of nature done him a genital wrong, be actually be deemed a woman who loves women.
His love for the gentle things in life aroused suspicion about his sexuality that was totally unfounded, since he was a hapless hesbian unaware of his womanliness.
by Ultimo69 April 24, 2009
Get the Hesbian mug.A nb gay woman (lesbian) who uses "he/him" pronouns.
Appears by a misinterpretation of "gender =/= pronouns"
This is born for nb folks, since some are not ok w "they/them".
So: "A non binary person can use binary pronouns, which do not mean they are binary"
Example: a nb person who use "she/her"
Pronouns are meant to indicate what gender the subject is/what's the one which the person identifies the most/is minimally related to. (That's why neopronouns were born).
A person should choose their pronouns in based of how they identify.
"Lesbianism" has always include nb woman/nb persons whose has a minimum of correlation with womanhood.
"He/him" are male-related pronouns. Whoever decides to use them is, in fact, related to manhood or male gender spectrum and/or expression.
We come to the conclusion that "hesbians" are: a contradiction, ignorance about how "pronouns" works, what "lesbianism" is, and a reason why more transphobics r erasing trans rights.
Some defend that there has "always been he/him lesbians". As the "male Victorian lesbians"
Those woman were not "he/him lesbians". They were faking being men, so they could been with their lovers without being murdered. Since, lesbianism were a reason to be executed.
So, again, we come to the same conclusion: a bad use of languaje, tolerance and logic.
Nowadays, there are fools who think "everything is valid", even if it is a contradiction/hurtful for someone/a community/movement etc.
Appears by a misinterpretation of "gender =/= pronouns"
This is born for nb folks, since some are not ok w "they/them".
So: "A non binary person can use binary pronouns, which do not mean they are binary"
Example: a nb person who use "she/her"
Pronouns are meant to indicate what gender the subject is/what's the one which the person identifies the most/is minimally related to. (That's why neopronouns were born).
A person should choose their pronouns in based of how they identify.
"Lesbianism" has always include nb woman/nb persons whose has a minimum of correlation with womanhood.
"He/him" are male-related pronouns. Whoever decides to use them is, in fact, related to manhood or male gender spectrum and/or expression.
We come to the conclusion that "hesbians" are: a contradiction, ignorance about how "pronouns" works, what "lesbianism" is, and a reason why more transphobics r erasing trans rights.
Some defend that there has "always been he/him lesbians". As the "male Victorian lesbians"
Those woman were not "he/him lesbians". They were faking being men, so they could been with their lovers without being murdered. Since, lesbianism were a reason to be executed.
So, again, we come to the same conclusion: a bad use of languaje, tolerance and logic.
Nowadays, there are fools who think "everything is valid", even if it is a contradiction/hurtful for someone/a community/movement etc.
A: Hey, you know i'm a hesbian, right?
B: A what?
A: A lesbian who use he/him pronouns.
B: so you identify yourself as a woman?
A: that's right, a gay woman.
B: but you use a male-related pronouns?
A: you got it well!
B: if you use he/him, should you be called "straight"?
A: No, cuz I'm a woman.
B: But if you are refered as he/him, would it be contradictory? And also, wouldn't you mean by it, you are seeing sex instead of gender, and by that, being transphobic and ignoring how languaje is used and/or what lesbianism is?
A: You are just an ignorant, lesbophobic.
B: Ok, sorry, cool. Did you know i'm vegetarian?
A: But you are eating chicken right now. You cannot be vegetarian.
B: Exactly.
B: A what?
A: A lesbian who use he/him pronouns.
B: so you identify yourself as a woman?
A: that's right, a gay woman.
B: but you use a male-related pronouns?
A: you got it well!
B: if you use he/him, should you be called "straight"?
A: No, cuz I'm a woman.
B: But if you are refered as he/him, would it be contradictory? And also, wouldn't you mean by it, you are seeing sex instead of gender, and by that, being transphobic and ignoring how languaje is used and/or what lesbianism is?
A: You are just an ignorant, lesbophobic.
B: Ok, sorry, cool. Did you know i'm vegetarian?
A: But you are eating chicken right now. You cannot be vegetarian.
B: Exactly.
by Cynic_Psychologist February 6, 2022
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person with at least 10 oz of brain: uhh, last time i checked, pronouns don't always equal gender? that's not a man? how did you get into my house?
person with at least 10 oz of brain: uhh, last time i checked, pronouns don't always equal gender? that's not a man? how did you get into my house?
by k66gunso September 12, 2020
Get the hesbian mug.a label used by lesbians who use he/him pronouns. hesbians can use other pronouns alongside he/him such as they/them, she/her or even neopronouns if they wish. some hesbians consider themselves non-binary, whereas others are comfortable being cis- and some hesbians even being trans women/transfem.
being a lesbian and also using he/him can be used to alleviate a disconnect from womanhood, used for gender non conforming/drag, just for the fun of it and more. there is no “right” way to be a hesbian.
hesbian is a beautiful term and all those who identify as one are valid and deserve love. go hug a local hesbian today!
being a lesbian and also using he/him can be used to alleviate a disconnect from womanhood, used for gender non conforming/drag, just for the fun of it and more. there is no “right” way to be a hesbian.
hesbian is a beautiful term and all those who identify as one are valid and deserve love. go hug a local hesbian today!
person a: wait... if you use he/him and are masc presenting, are u a trans guy?
person b: nope, im a hesbian! i can understand the confusion though.
person a: oh okay, thank you for telling me!
person b: nope, im a hesbian! i can understand the confusion though.
person a: oh okay, thank you for telling me!
by stuglies October 3, 2020
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often invalidated by gatekeeping bigots who think pronouns = gender and unable to let others be happy
often invalidated by gatekeeping bigots who think pronouns = gender and unable to let others be happy
hesbian: hey i'm a wlw but i use he/him i hope that's alright
she/her lesbian: that's fine with me, your identity, your choice :)
she/her lesbian: that's fine with me, your identity, your choice :)
by lunalucifer666 October 12, 2020
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