Fratered

To be absolutely fucked over by a coworker, boss, or "leader" who acts like a visionary but is actually just a walking disaster. A person who fraters a project will make every simple task feel like passing a kidney stone, constantly changing the plan without telling anyone, and ultimately delivering a steaming pile of nothing after making everyone else work overtime.

It’s the art of being high-maintenance and low-performance. Someone who is fratered has been mentally drained by a person who treats "moving the goalposts" like an Olympic sport.

Signs you're being Fratered:
The Random Pivot: You finish the work, and they decide they "don't like the vibe" anymore, forcing you to start over at 4:55 PM on a Friday.

The Bureaucracy Boner: They create 15 unnecessary steps for a task that takes 2 minutes, just so they feel like they have a big dick.

Ghosting & Toasting: They disappear when there’s actual work to do, then reappear just to criticize the work you did while they were gone.

Zero-Calorie Delivery: Lots of talking, lots of "synergy," but at the end of the day, the plate is empty.

"We had the deal closed until the CEO fratered it by demanding we change the contract font to Comic Sans and then went on vacation for two weeks."

"I’m about to quit. I’ve been fratered three times this week by Mark; he keeps changing the project specs in his head and getting mad at me for not being psychic."

"Don't let that absolute tool frater this presentation. Just give him a fake remote and tell him he's in charge while we actually get shit done."

Fratered by Carl T Anderson January 16, 2026

Frazered 

Paralytically drunk in a field at a festival

Omg that guy is tottally frazered

Frazered by Fanny1992 July 22, 2010

fraterday

Fraterday is between Thursday night and Sunday morning since these days are very conducive to drinking and partying.

Fraterday is the best day of the week!

fraterday by Nate August 22, 2006

Frasered 

When Kerry Fraser referees a NHL game,(mainly a toronto maple leafs game)and he is one sided like he always is, the side that he calls all the penalties against is frasered.

Man, the leafs totally get frasered last night, next game at the ACC, he is totally going to get beaten on by the fans.

Frasered by CML is awesome February 26, 2007

Fratred 

hatred of the freddy krueger movies

"so that's where all my fratred came from."

Fratred by anon. December 4, 2003

franered 

Getting drunk at a family event on Moonshine.

Man 1: how was your Thanksgiving?
Man 2: I got totally franered on Polish moonshine.

franered by Aggjsjj October 7, 2018

Brendan Frasered 

The act of being raped,gaining weight, becoming depressed and then finding success

I sure would love to be Brendan Frasered

Brendan Frasered by A bad guy in general December 26, 2023