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Frasered
When Kerry Fraser referees a NHL game,(mainly a toronto maple leafs game)and he is one sided like he always is, the side that he calls all the penalties against is frasered.
Man, the leafs totally get frasered last night, next game at the ACC, he is totally going to get beaten on by the fans.
Frasered by CML is awesome February 26, 2007
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Fratered
To be absolutely fucked over by a coworker, boss, or "leader" who acts like a visionary but is actually just a walking disaster. A person who fraters a project will make every simple task feel like passing a kidney stone, constantly changing the plan without telling anyone, and ultimately delivering a steaming pile of nothing after making everyone else work overtime.
It’s the art of being high-maintenance and low-performance. Someone who is fratered has been mentally drained by a person who treats "moving the goalposts" like an Olympic sport.
Signs you're being Fratered:
The Random Pivot: You finish the work, and they decide they "don't like the vibe" anymore, forcing you to start over at 4:55 PM on a Friday.
The Bureaucracy Boner: They create 15 unnecessary steps for a task that takes 2 minutes, just so they feel like they have a big dick.
Ghosting & Toasting: They disappear when there’s actual work to do, then reappear just to criticize the work you did while they were gone.
Zero-Calorie Delivery: Lots of talking, lots of "synergy," but at the end of the day, the plate is empty.
It’s the art of being high-maintenance and low-performance. Someone who is fratered has been mentally drained by a person who treats "moving the goalposts" like an Olympic sport.
Signs you're being Fratered:
The Random Pivot: You finish the work, and they decide they "don't like the vibe" anymore, forcing you to start over at 4:55 PM on a Friday.
The Bureaucracy Boner: They create 15 unnecessary steps for a task that takes 2 minutes, just so they feel like they have a big dick.
Ghosting & Toasting: They disappear when there’s actual work to do, then reappear just to criticize the work you did while they were gone.
Zero-Calorie Delivery: Lots of talking, lots of "synergy," but at the end of the day, the plate is empty.
"We had the deal closed until the CEO fratered it by demanding we change the contract font to Comic Sans and then went on vacation for two weeks."
"I’m about to quit. I’ve been fratered three times this week by Mark; he keeps changing the project specs in his head and getting mad at me for not being psychic."
"Don't let that absolute tool frater this presentation. Just give him a fake remote and tell him he's in charge while we actually get shit done."
"I’m about to quit. I’ve been fratered three times this week by Mark; he keeps changing the project specs in his head and getting mad at me for not being psychic."
"Don't let that absolute tool frater this presentation. Just give him a fake remote and tell him he's in charge while we actually get shit done."
Fratered by Carl T Anderson January 16, 2026
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Brendan Frasered by A bad guy in general December 26, 2023
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