Being forced to dance at a bar or night club despite repeated saying no by your girlfriend or an otherwise unusually hot woman you think you have a chance with.
I was so drunk last night and didn't want to dance at all, but then my girlfriend forced me to dance by threatening to not have sex with me if I didn't go with her. She totally dance raped me.
When someone purchases a lap dance for an unwilling recipient, or when the dancer of the aforementioned dance is undesirable in body type, gender, ethnicity, or hygiene.
"I just bought Mike a rape dance from that humongous stripper over there, he's going to be pissed."
or
"Honey, I know I promised that I would not buy a lap dance - but my friend pooled their money and got me a rape dance"
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)