A guy who is used for sex and carrying shopping bags. Activities could also extend to him taking out the garbage or mowing the lawn so long as no relationship is acknowledged and no future relationship is intended.
That guy is sort of hot. He would make a good cockencamel.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.