Cochonnet is a French word that is used to call the little ball that is used in the French sport "Pétanque". The goal of Pétanque is to throw heavy iron balls closest to le "cochonnet". In slang, we use it to call the part of the body between the vagina and the anus, because this is where the balls hit.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.