someone who cares for others by being meticulous and constructively strict; someone who exhibits “tough love” toward others
“Yeah, my parents are really cariculous with me.”
“Your parents are what?”
“Like I know they want the best for me and mean well, but I wish they were kinder about it.”
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.