Used to describe an organism or object that most people would call cute or adorable. May be also used to describe something labeled as both "chubby" and a "Buddy". Usually directed towards small animals or synonymous with good friends.
(talking to a good friend or significant other) "We are still buchubs right?" (Seeing a dead deer on the side of a road) "Aw, poor budchub!" (Surrounded by puppies) "Wow, look at all of these budhcubs"
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.