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Boy failure 

Me
Boy 1: he pulls no bitches and lacks social skills and looks like a girl!
Boy2: yea he’s a boy failure
Boy failure by Fries 🦴 July 28, 2025

boyfailure 

A male who is somewhat attractive but sucks at everything. Especially at socialization and getting bitches (which he literally cannot do).
Gojo from JJK is such a boyfailure.”

Boyfailure 

An attractive guy who’s somewhat incompetent, can barely do the bare minimum and should really get his shit together.
A: I almost got fired from my minimum wage job, because I broke some of the equipment twice this week.
B: you really are a boyfailure
Boyfailure by Chidubemm0 August 24, 2023

boyfailure 

Ace Ayune
Ace Ayune isn't a boyfailure (dishonest).
boyfailure by Sjargo11 February 6, 2025

Boyfailure 

A young adult male who is just really bad at life in general, usually through no fault of their own. A boyfailure is typically socially awkward, absent-minded or otherwise "stupid" to a ridiculous degree, extremely lonely (willingly or not), or (more commonly) a combination of the three. Their ineptitude is considered cute or endearing by some and the term is usually not meant to be insulting, even though it inherently is. Also called "Boyfail."
"Do you ever just want to take a boyfailure under your wing and take care of him?"
"Damn right I do."
The striver is an interesting phenomenon that is seen across college campuses. In essence, the striver is an over-achiever who comes from a working or middle class family. He may be an immigrant. He may have been a slacker in HS who was "born again" into an academic wunderkind. Or he may just be an over-achiever who is keeping at it.

The striver is willing to sacrifice his social life at the expense of Phi Beta Kappa and Summa Cum Laude. The striver is the guy who stays at the library long after you are gone. The striver is the guy who takes 30 credits/semester and considers anything below an A/4.0 failure. The striver doesn't work on campus, he is too busy finding ways to pad his resume instead of working retail or workstudy. The striver lets his grades pay his education by applying to ten scholarships a year.

The striver is a future Soros/Fullbright/Rhodes/Gates/Marshall/etc. fellow. The striver lives to study. For the striver, their fun comes from the rewards they expect to receive in return for their diligence. Be it Law School, B-School, academia, or politics. The striver seeks to find the American Dream through academic success.
Anthony was a striver. He transfered from a TTT to an IVY and graduated in 2 years. He studied his ass off and went to Penn Law. He got a Biglaw offer. But lost it all because of an unmoderated mesasgeboard.

Successful strivers:
- Barack Obama
- Harold Koh
Striver by URM Striver January 3, 2009
Word of the Day on August 15, 2026