When a person (man or woman) blatantly states that another person (of the same sex, usually a close friend) likes the person that they like. The person that is accused of liking is the blowover. Blowover is used as a noun "for" something. The "for" will be directed to the person who the original person likes.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.