A state of drunkenness in which all hope and all dignity is lost. People in this state tend to whip their hair back and forth, attempt to make out with everyone, take their shirts off randomly, and almost always pee the bed, but the bed is usually not theirs.
Definition 1 When a friend commits to meeting you at a certain time, but stands you up because of some lame excuse.
Definition 2 When a friend commits to meeting you at a certain time, but is way later than what they originally told you.
example 1 I got bendered by Mark today at the trailhead.
example 2 I bendered hard this morning
when your talking to someone and another person comes up to them, and they stop paying attention to you and start listening to the other person.
Person 1: ...so I told that bitch like you don't even come here thooo and she-
Person 2 walks up: *says something unimportant*
Person 3: Bro thats crazy
Person 1: Are you even listening to me
Person 3: I'm sorry I'm more interested in what he has to say
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.