A heterosexual man who engages in anal sex with other men and who has other negative personality traits which come together in the expression "Bumholer". It does not have any negative association to such acts between gay men, but is more of a catch all phrase for a stupid, thoughtless, can't figure out where his penis properly goes type of male.
Synonyms: doofus,loogan,poltroon,dipshit
The term first came into widespread public use through the online gambling forum www.peepsplace.com. It was applied by poster Paddy to poster ATX, a widely discredited figure on the forum who had posted videos of himself leaping off the roofs of buildings and badly injuring himself and claimed to be the gay wrestler Ric Flair. He became known as a "...roof jumping bumholer."
A good insult in verbal deadlock, can only really be topped by "fuck you" or "gaylord". It refers to someone who shows sexual love via the means of anal sex. I know bumlover named ben who bumloves oscar.
"Ben is a bumlover."
"Ben bumloves oscar with his own and a plastic dildo"
"Dat Ben muthafuka iz a bumlover ya kno don"
It is said of the situation where a person has the bad luck to make contact with his testicles against an undefined surface or object, intentioned or not.
Given the nature of the word, it is more appropriate to design cases where the interaction is made with a moving object, for example, a ball.
Although it is extremely painful for the victim, it tends to be considerably funny to people who witness it.
Today in the baseball game the pitcher took a nutshot; the baseball hit him in the nuts.
Man, I just watched the funniest nutshot video ever.