A person or individual who is okay with being alone. Female or male can be an Alonesbian it has no age as long as you okay with yourself and being by yourself
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.