An Abercrombie hat wearing, date- raping, wanna-be frat boy. A pretty boy. A meathead. Any guy who is more concerned with his appearance than the average female, and who is overuses lame pick-up lines. Any guy who thinks he is hot shit, but is in fact a loser who can't get girls. A white preppy guy who runs his mouth to bigger, African American guys.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.