Epitimology: From the French exclamations: "ooh la la!" & "C'est chouette!"plus the -American English word "sheesh!"(exclamation meaning "oh my goodness!") became she-shelala.
Can be used for masculine or feminine. (The 'she' does not imply 'her' nor anything feminine, necessarily.)
They're taking their private jet to the Hamptons for the long weekend.
Thats way too sheshelala for me!
We're going camping!
How a mushy-hearted guy views a nice girl for whom he collects pretty beach-souvenirs.
Tiffany is really speshell to me --- not only does she love da cowries, whelks, and scallop-halves dat I gather for her, but she always both gives me a kiss whenever I bring her some and invites me to help her glue them on da wall of her living room in tasteful patterns.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.