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ocassional partner for occasional sex (any sex)
we are not in love we just have ocassional sex that's why i told he's my sexmate ,duh!
sexmate by SACHIKO August 29, 2005
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A partner-in-sex. A mate distinctly only for sex. A fuck-buddy.
Sabrina: Why are you hitting on me you have a girlfriend asshole!
Me: Sabrina she's not my girlfriend! She's my sexmate!
sexmate by ReyMon! November 22, 2010

sexmatron 

An apparent device invented by Thomas Edison, referenced by Professor Farnsworth in Futurama: Into the Wild Green Yonder.
You wouldn't ask Thomas Edison whether he knew how to use a sexmatron.
sexmatron by ThreeDeeGamerMan October 24, 2015
When a woman in a relationship dictates to her lover by using the reward/threat of sexuall intercourse.
1. My girlfriend sextates to me by giving me handys in the JC Pennys parking lot in order to get me to carry her bags when she wants to go shoping.
2. My girlfiend has big tits, so i do whatever she says.
Sextate by cool hand lucas July 20, 2010

Sexmaster 

Short is THE Sexmaster, he made me come so many times it was mind-boggling
Sexmaster by Sexmaster #1 October 2, 2006
Slang term for wet dream, an offshoot of nightmare.
Ugh, that was a great sexmare, though I'll have to burn the sheets...
sexmare by Hugh Lloyd October 1, 2006
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Oblication 

A vacation, feeling more like an obligation, that involves visiting or staying with family.
So Joe where are you taking the kids for spring break vacation? We are going on an oblication to Boca to visit my mother-in-law.
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Surf Dracula Syndrome 

A phenomenon in film/television series, most notably streaming series, where the main premise is drawn out to such a point that it takes an entire season or more to get the parts of the series the audience is actually interested in seeing.

For example, if a series is titled "Surf Dracula," a majority of viewers would tune in expecting to see Dracula surfing by the first or second episode. However, the entire first season would instead be tedious padding and backstory before finally ending with Dracula surfing in the last five minutes of the season finale.
I watched "Smallville" on Netflix the other day. Dude, it was ten seasons of filler before he finally flew! Major Surf Dracula Syndrome!
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Northstarring

Finding your way back to the truth by fixing on one verified fact and working out from there, the way you navigate by the North Star when everything around you is spinning.
Rumours were flying everywhere, so she went northstarring — one checked fact at a time.
Northstarring by Light Bearer October 22, 2026
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Plate of Brown 

A plate of brown consists of foods that have little to no nutritional value, and are typically deep fried. A true plate of brown will also be accompanied by a dark soda.
Wanna go to meal hall & grab a plate of brown?
Plate of Brown by Cheddar Craigson September 18, 2020
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