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Verb (pronounced Sam-ing)

The act of engaging in sexual intercourse with an ex who expects more then a friendship, but the engagee knows they will never date again.

Also the act of sex between two ex's who know the wisest move in the situation would be to never speak again.

Saming often results from a refusal of partners to let go of eachother for sexual reasons or feelings of boredom and loneliness.

Every state of Saming is unique and can be very complex.
It often hides behind the term "friends".
Friend: "Hows things with Kourtney?"

Engagee: "Oh, we're Saming agan, I just love fucking her but shes still way too attached to the past"
Saming by Mashed Potato John August 17, 2008
Related Words
To screw up or have something bad happen.
That ball just went in the gutter, thats ok shes saming tonight
Saming by badgerinwi December 3, 2010

good saming 

The act of performing Random Acts of Kindness. A good Samaritan.
I decided to be a good Samaritan by going good saming and paying for the car behind me in the drive through

Virgin Shaming 

The act of judging or mocking someone due to their assumed lack of sexual experience. The perpetrator will normally base this assumption on the victim's personality traits or behaviors that they associate with being a virgin. The perpetrator will often do this cover up their own insecurities.
When he asked his friends how to get laid, they began virgin shaming him.
Virgin Shaming by Stepman February 18, 2020

short shaming 

No, this has nothing to do with penis length; your dirty mind would go there!

Short shaming is the act of teasing or disparaging a person because of their short stature.

It's a form of discrimination that gets the impunity that racism doesn't. Short shaming has a surprising double standard present in many women: they advocate for the body positivity of themselves and others, yet openly and shamelessly denounce short men.

It's important to remember that height is genetic and unchangeable once a man hits the approximate age of 20; discriminating against it is never a valid criticism. Short men face a lot of discrimination, so just remember to treat them with the respect that everybody deserves. Short shaming is like racism: you're discriminating against a harmless trait that someone cannot change.
Girl 1: "So how tall's your new boyfriend?"
Girl 2: "He's 5'8."
Girl 1: "Ew, it's only a friends thing, right?"
Girl 2: "Hey, quit short shaming, I love him!"
pronounced shming ee or SHminG-E like one would pronounce 'sing-E' with a SHM instead of just s

An extraordinarily odd person. A person differing from the 'norm' but it's intention is not politically incorrect, for example, someone of a race outside of your own, a different sex from your own etc, cannot be a 'shmingy'. Where as someone who hikes their pants up to their arm pits, wears no socks and has the brightest of pink shoes on, can be considered a 'shmingy' Everyone knows a shmingy. Not to be used in a derogatory way, ie; a 'shmingy' cannot refer to someone odd for reasons of a disability, mental or otherwise. It's to be used in the context of 'weirdo' or 'strange' person.
"check out shmingy over there in the plaid bicycle shorts and black knee high socks" or "what a shmingy"
shmingy by Shawndhi August 31, 2008
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