When someone borrows as something from you and comes back to get repaid for what they borrowed.
I loaned Bob $20 bucks and the next week he was pulling a roundtree ( borrowing then saying it was them that gave it to you) and tried so say I owed him.
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.