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A modate is when two men or women go on a date with romantic interest and/or intention with someone of the same sex. Similar to brodate but gets the whole truth out.
When I learned the word brodate existed, I looked up the definition. Loosely, it's allegedly two heterosexuals going out. This had me asking "why is getting the word date in so important?" Straight friends have been doing things together for millennium. Nobody needed a special word for it, especially date. I know 0 straight men who would use the term, need a term, etc. The word brodate is about something else. It's obvious to most people I'm sure, especially the 'guys' using the term. Coining this word is another step toward making the abnormal normal in our society. So, modate I came up with to expose the hidden meaning and intellectual dishonesty used to define this useless word brodate.
Those two guys are going on a modate. However, they're calling it a brodate. They do this to suggest they're homosexual but don't commit to the actual admission.
modate by Mark Kinzel not ashamed February 24, 2018
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moditerranean 

Any design element that has both a Modern and Mediterranean aesthetic.
“This sleek, modern building has the tile work, archways, and centralized courtyard of a Mediterranean structure, making it a Moditerranean design.”
Modern - Urbanite. Twenty-somethings living off Mom and Dad's money in cities like New York, Los Angeles, San Francisco, Chicago & Boston.
Guy: I can't stand Jane, all she does is mooch off her parents and talk about how great living in Chelsea is.

Girl: Yeah, well she's a typical modite.
Modite by Village Traveler March 4, 2009
I'm tired of sitting around...let's mogate.
mogate by 270geeser December 28, 2009
to make things, phrases, or situations gay and/or retarded without any effort.
Dave really modaned the moment with all his talk of men with cerebral palsy having massive penises.
modane by Willy Tallywhacker October 25, 2006
An awesome term that rose in the 1980's that was another word for "You got told!" or "You got burned!". Truely old school people use this term.
1. Ooooooh! 'Dat boi' just got 'dem ass moated!
2. Damn, homie! You just got moated from 'dat dum' ass bitch!
Moated by Cameron Shuck April 17, 2006
A date at Mc Donalds. Not considered a real date by many.
Jess: Oh my god Michael, I can't believe you went out with that ho.

Michael: Awww Jess, come one. I didn't cheat on you, it was only a McDate.
McDate by McHater January 12, 2009
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Soul digger

A man who dates women with the sole purpose of exploiting their time, energy, and labor while he sucks the joy and happiness from their lives.
"That guy's a soul digger. He'll expect you to work full time, but you'll be doing all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping, and childcare while he plays video games or watches TV."
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pod person 

A person pretending to be something they aren't, or an impostor. This is inferred because of the old alien movies where alien pods appear on earth and the "pod people" dispose of the humans and slowly reproduce the bodies, pretending to be humans.
The pod person was pretending to be my father, but I knew that he was an alien when he acted differently than my father ever would have.
pod person by Christopher M. May 9, 2005
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A dead drop is a location used to secretly pass items between two people, without requiring them to meet.

Spies have been known to use dead drops, using various techniques to hide the items and to signal that the drop has been made. Drug dealers use this as well.

A common place is to duct tape the item to the underside of a toilet cover in a public restroom.

A signal is sometimes used as well to indicate there is something to pickup, like a pile of stones in a certain formation. After checking the drop the signal is removed.
"The dead drop is the restroom toilet at the Gulf station at the corner of Commercial Ave. and Georges Rd."
dead drop by rubberroom July 23, 2008
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No Surprises Wedding

A "No Surprises Wedding," or NSW, is a wedding invitation designation that tells attendees that there can be no unplanned announcements, engagements, events or speeches at the wedding - all actions must be pre-approved by the couple. Anyone who performs an unapproved "surprise" will be asked to leave the wedding early.

This designation comes from Reddit, where so many stories of bad wedding behavior indicated a need to communicate expectations for the wedding behavior of attendees.
You are cordially invited to the nuptials of Brian and Tom on October 31 at noon.

Please note that this wedding is child-free (under 10) and a No Surprises Wedding (NSW). Reach out to wedding planner Sami Smith to request approvals or exceptions; please note that exceptions will be rare. Limited child care for under-10s will be available. All approvals will be noted and included in planning. Unapproved, or surprise exceptions, will result in guests being asked to leave.
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Ulzzang true definition is "best & "face" = best face in korean. They are basically people with above average looks, sometimes with the use of photoshop and haduri who post their pics online, some becoming internet celebrities.
"Hey, see that chick over there? She's pretty enough to be an ulzzang. :D"
ulzzang by `r i k kit t y February 26, 2008
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EBK stands for "Elite Ball Knowledge." 1 In internet slang, "ball knowledge" originally referred to a deep understanding of football/soccer or basketball, but it has evolved into a broader term for having a highly sophisticated, deep, or niche understanding of any specific topic (such as music, movies, or subcultures).
Person A: "That scene was a direct homage to an unreleased 1982 Japanese indie film."
Person B: "Wow, EBK."
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