A modate is when two men or women go on a date with romantic interest and/or intention with someone of the same sex. Similar to brodate but gets the whole truth out.
When I learned the word brodate existed, I looked up the definition. Loosely, it's allegedly two heterosexuals going out. This had me asking "why is getting the word date in so important?" Straight friends have been doing things together for millennium. Nobody needed a special word for it, especially date. I know 0 straight men who would use the term, need a term, etc. The word brodate is about something else. It's obvious to most people I'm sure, especially the 'guys' using the term. Coining this word is another step toward making the abnormal normal in our society. So, modate I came up with to expose the hidden meaning and intellectual dishonesty used to define this useless word brodate.
Those two guys are going on a modate. However, they're calling it a brodate. They do this to suggest they're homosexual but don't commit to the actual admission.
by Mark Kinzel not ashamed February 24, 2018
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