A term commonly used on figure skating twitter (fstwt). It's used to describe a skater you're fond of. Can be male or female, however its usually used for female skaters.
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.