King Ding-a-Ling is THE MAN. The man who not only has the exceptionally large penis, but also (and most importantly) possesses the knowledge & skill to use it properly.
There's no need to cry over a man... unless he's King Ding-a-Ling with the 12" swing.
Pajama casual is a term used when working from home and preparing for a video conference. All business above the waist and your pajama pants down below.