Pronunciation:
/ˈɛn.tɚ.kɔrs.ɪd.nɪs/
(EN-ter-cors-ed-ness)
Definition:
1. The state of being deeply and often permanently tangled or changed through intimate, emotional, or psychological exchange.
2. A kind of altered or surreal condition where people, thoughts, or experiences blend and overlap so much that the boundaries between them become unclear.
3. A poetic way to describe being marked or changed by connection, a lasting impression that stays with you after the encounter.
Etymology:
The word comes from “intercourse,” in its older meaning of communication or interaction between beings. Adding “-ed” suggests that the action has already happened and left a mark, while “-ness” turns it into a state of being. Together, the word describes what it feels like to carry the lasting effect of deep connection, whether mental, emotional, spiritual, or existential.
Why it's important:
While words like “connection” or “intimacy” describe moments or feelings, intercoursedness points to something more lasting and deeper—a fusion that leaves a permanent trace and changes who you are. It fills a gap between just meeting or knowing someone and being truly and irreversibly altered by that experience.
/ˈɛn.tɚ.kɔrs.ɪd.nɪs/
(EN-ter-cors-ed-ness)
Definition:
1. The state of being deeply and often permanently tangled or changed through intimate, emotional, or psychological exchange.
2. A kind of altered or surreal condition where people, thoughts, or experiences blend and overlap so much that the boundaries between them become unclear.
3. A poetic way to describe being marked or changed by connection, a lasting impression that stays with you after the encounter.
Etymology:
The word comes from “intercourse,” in its older meaning of communication or interaction between beings. Adding “-ed” suggests that the action has already happened and left a mark, while “-ness” turns it into a state of being. Together, the word describes what it feels like to carry the lasting effect of deep connection, whether mental, emotional, spiritual, or existential.
Why it's important:
While words like “connection” or “intimacy” describe moments or feelings, intercoursedness points to something more lasting and deeper—a fusion that leaves a permanent trace and changes who you are. It fills a gap between just meeting or knowing someone and being truly and irreversibly altered by that experience.
“Their connection wasn’t just conversation- it was intercoursedness. Like they had entered each other’s minds and never fully left.”
“The song left something behind that I couldn’t shake. That’s the kind of intercoursedness I look for in art.”
“After everything we’ve been through, even silence feels full of intercoursedness.”
“Even a short meeting gave Orson intercoursedness, a lasting impression he couldn’t shake.”
“The song left something behind that I couldn’t shake. That’s the kind of intercoursedness I look for in art.”
“After everything we’ve been through, even silence feels full of intercoursedness.”
“Even a short meeting gave Orson intercoursedness, a lasting impression he couldn’t shake.”
by orsinian October 19, 2025
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