A friend for the day/evening. aka. A hookup. Derived from the Spanish "Hoy" which means, "today."
Norma: "We had so much fun in Tijuana today... but what's your dealio? Are you not looking for anything long-term?"
Alejandro: "While I loved our pictures in front of the zebra-painted donkeys, I need to be honest with you... I'm just interested in being hoyfriends. You down?"
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.