It's chill man; To go with the flow while being easy and breezy; easy on the eyes and pleasantly surprised; made infamous by Snoop Dogg himself; see Pitch Perfect 2
Guy 1: Hey man, what do you say about dinner this weekend with Andrea at that new restaurant in LA?
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.