when a man befriends a single woman that he wishes to have sex with but instead ends up just hanging around with her all the time doing whatever she wants to do and receives nothing.
"so he spent all day carrying her shopping then went out and watched Titanic only to come home and not get laid (again)"
"damn why is he always fagbagging?"
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)