Someone who is laid back when nobody's looking. Anybody can be downtight around people, especially drunks. People who drink usually do so in a social setting, where everybody's looking. Being downtight when everybody is looking is posing. There are people who confuse camera
shy with true shyness, these are the
ones who forget that everybody isn't part of the reality
show they're on.
Guy who watches reality shows-These people are
cool, they're our age but they live it up like this all the
time.
Guy who doesn't watch TV- That's a TV show you're watching, those are actors who make
money to live it up like that on TV. What they're like when the cameras not rolling, nobody knows except what the media tells you unless you know one of them personally, you don't know what they're really like, or if there is even a real them. Someone tells you they're downtight, and you never ask yourself whether what they said was bullshit, that's why you still watch reality TV.