Someone who is laid back when nobody's looking. Anybody can be downtight around
people, especially drunks.
People who drink usually do so in a social setting, where everybody's looking. Being downtight when everybody is looking is posing. There are
people who confuse camera shy with true shyness, these are the ones who forget that everybody isn't part of the reality show they're on.
Guy who watches reality shows-These
people are cool, they're our age but they live it up like this all the
time.
Guy who doesn't watch
TV- That's a TV show you're watching, those are actors who make money to live it up like that on TV. What they're like when the cameras not rolling, nobody knows except what the media tells you unless you know one of them personally, you don't know what they're really like, or if there is even a real them. Someone tells you they're downtight, and you never ask yourself whether what they said was
bullshit, that's why you still watch reality TV.