disvited

(adjective) Formally removed from a guest list after you were already on it. Being disvited is worse than never being invited, because it means they thought about it and decided against you.
(verb, past tense) The act of having taken back someone's invitation, usually in writing and with no regrets.

"Wait, why aren't you at Megan's wedding?" "I got disvited after I asked if the open bar was really open."
"I've been disvited from three bachelorette parties this year and honestly it's a relief."
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disvited by Tnassip October 1, 2026

Disvite 

To disinvite someone after extending an invitation.

I had to disvite Smotkin at Michaels request.

Disvite by Phantomlover September 27, 2019

Disvite

(verb) To formally take back someone's invitation, usually politely, in writing, and with more satisfaction than is strictly necessary. It's a mix of "dis" and "invite," and it's what you do when someone has used up their plus-one privileges for life.
(noun) The uninvitation itself. A disvite is classier than ghosting and pettier than a phone call.

"Kyle spent all of Thanksgiving explaining crypto to Grandma, so this year he got a disvite."
"Did you disvite your sister-in-law from the baby shower?" "Disvited, sealed, and hand-delivered. She knows what she did."
Tags: uninvite, petty, boundaries, guest list, ghosting, family drama, wedding drama, not invited, disinvite, savage

Disvite by Tnassip October 1, 2026