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Default Settings 

A word used by homophobes to imply that being straight is the default of what people should be, the opposite being "custom" which implies that being gay is a choice. Found mostly on TikTok in response to LGBTQ+ related content.
Queer person: "I-"
Comments: "Got them default settings on. Proud to be normal. DEFAULT > CUSTOM. #TRUMP2020. Heaven gang. #ALM.
Default Settings by Nerd_simulator September 2, 2020

default settings 

A way of saying that you are not affiliated with lgbtq+ by saying you were born on "default settings" is another way of saying you're heterosexual. this is also a trigger word for lgbtq+ people as they find it an "insult" by saying it's not normal to like or enjoy another gender. also if you say "I'm on default settings" you're a Giga chad
"I'm bi! what is your sexuality?"
"oh no, I'm on the default settings."
default settings by theylluvveli December 5, 2022

Default settings 

This term is used by gay men with a heavy piss kink
A: 'I'm on default settings Bro😈💯'
B: 'You have a piss kink too?...'
Default settings by alphamale3848282 February 21, 2021

Default settings 

Where you are born straight/heterosexual and not by any other sexuality and it is not part of the LGBT. Because we are Giga Chads
I am on Default Settings and nothing more.
Default settings by XxJohnnySins911xX September 4, 2022

Default settings 

Straight White Male
Gay person asks you out.
You: I'm sorry, I'm default settings

Default Settings 

When someone says they have “default settings”, they are saying they are Pansexual, since when you’re born the default is that you love everyone.
Kenny: I’m default settings

Dylan: Really? Me too! PAN PRIDE
Default Settings by Raya TLD March 9, 2021
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