When you are trying to have gentle anal, but your sex partner plows his horse cockup in there, disregarding your desires and your sensitive anus.
Mom: "How was your gay sex with Timothy last night? Was it pleasant?"
Me: "It was quite painful actually. I got analated. Timothy rammed his third leg between my tight ass cheeks when I was hoping for soft sex. He aggressively entered my anal cavity."
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.