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Tfym is used for "The fuck you mean". usually used in a hostile way.
Tfym- The fuck you mean
Bill: "You okay"
Jack: "Tfym"
tfym by kcamryan November 13, 2016
Related Words
tfym • TFYS • TFYD • tfyh • tfyt • tfya • Tfyb • TFYC • tfydwml • tfygd
"Think For Yourself, Schmuck!", one of the central dogma/catma of Discordianism.

Similar and related phrases in this context are "Question Authority, Think for Yourself", "Black Sheep are still Sheep", "The Map is not the Territory", "Don't Eat the Menu!", "Do What Thou Wilt Shalt Be The Whole Of The Law--But Remember Nobody Likes an Asshole!", "A Conclusion is Simply where you Stopped Thinking" and of course being forbidden to believe anything that is written.
"You were just doing your job..", that is the lamest excuse ever, don't you have a brain?! TFYS!
TFYS by Ein Sofa Uhr October 16, 2009
Person 1: I hate you suck my cock
Person 2: yo, tfytb
tfytb by Little Kid Lover6 February 3, 2022
A shorter term for "The fuck you want?" Mainly used usually when the person saying this is in a bad mood and is being bothered or pestered by another person.
Guy 1: Yo
Guy 2: Tfyw? I'm busy right now
tfyw by Hopxy April 2, 2010
friend:shows his ass
me: turns other way “tfyd”
tfyd by YOOO wtd January 16, 2021
"Thanks For Your Help In This Matter"

The abbreviation for a term commonly used at an Information Technology helpdesk. It is used in electronic communication when you would like to thank someone for doing something without typing out the entire statement.

TFYHITM!
A:"The Tree is leaning. Please transplant tree into new planter and fill with soil."

B:"Strongly lifted old plant container off wheely thing. Held older container for Lee while she softly lifted the plant into new container. Held plant while Lee tied the bands around the new support stick."

A:"TFYHITM!"
TFYHITM by Jumbrotron March 13, 2010
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Literally "dirty" pronounced with a West Indian accent. Can also have a positive connotation, for example Sean Paul's album title "Dutty Rock".
"The girl is pretty but she corrupt and dutty!"

or, in a positive usage:

"Booya! That freestyle was dutty!"
Dutty by J Hall April 3, 2003
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korean word for madam, older woman
Ajumma wait a moment
Ajumma by aintnotinbutnice July 5, 2009
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Slop Grenade

When someone uses AI to generate a large document, slide deck, or piece of code/software and tosses it over the fence for you to deal with.
Chad: Hey Brent I sent you the new backend API change to review, it’s only 100 files changed.

Brent: he just tossed me a slop grenade
Slop Grenade by Joe Squid September 28, 2026
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Short-hand for the word floccinaucinihilipilification, meaning the estimation of something as valueless (encountered mainly as an example of one of the longest words in the English language).
After we broke up, he was floxi to me.
floxi by Dr. Geek May 13, 2009
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NYC people who migrate north to Quahog, RI to see the leaves in the fall.
New York and everyone from there can fornicate themselves with an iron stick.
leafers by ss++ February 8, 2005
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Respectfully 

Precedes or follows either a gratuitously disrespectful or honest remark, originated in New York City. Used in similar fashion to "no offense" or "to be honest," interchangeably.
Ya mans is wild buns, respectfully. Respectfully he's washed.

After school, The Modells on Jamaica Ave was active. Respectfully.
Respectfully by john quan the first December 20, 2020
Word of the Day on September 26, 2026

You met me at a very Chinese time in my life

A moment in time where you feel distinctly Chinese over all other things.
Dante: "I wish I could be Nigerian, but I can't because I'm Chinese. You met me at a very Chinese time in my life."
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