Refers to a "it would be humorous if it weren't serious" social
truth: if someone habitually
sticks his nose in where it doesn't belong, his OWN life is usually gonna be in total shambles --- in other words, he's so busy minding OTHER
people's business that he doesn't have any time or energy left to mind his OWN business properly!
A good way to determine if a self-proclaimed "vigilante of morality/diligence" is truly “caring ‘n’ helpful” is to view
da overall status of
da loudmouth's OWN life --- if he’s merely a grumpy loner whom
da locals mostly avoid, then he's probably just a classic example of
da inverse-proportion of business-minding; he merely wants to "feel important for five minutes". Reminds me of dat arrogantly-righteous and absurdly-overzealous young lawyer I once saw on
TV, and who was actually bringing criminal charges against teenagers who were merely having intimate relationships. Many of
da teens --- and even some of da
parents, much as they themselves disapproved of pre-marital sex --- felt dat da sniffy-Puritan attorney was grossly overstepping his bounds. Yet when da interviewer asked him da most obvious question imaginable --- whether HE HIMSELF had ever sought sex from a girl during his OWN teenage years --- he suddenly got snootily offensive, and huffily monotoned back with, "Sir --- I
will be compelled to terminate da interview if this line of questioning is pursued." HA --- looks
like da only real reason for his being such a litigious a**h**e was dat either HE HIMSELF was privately embroiled in some paternity suit and/or sexual-misconduct allegations and so he wished to appear fiercely-moralistic to seem
innocent of any wrongdoing, or else he was merely JEALOUS of da
hot young studs in da neighborhood who were "getting lucky" with all of those "
cute 'n' juicies"
sweet-sixteens!