Do it for the gram means you do things in your life so you can take pictures and show off on instagram for example you buy jordans or other expensive things just to post on Instagram look for likes
Man Im finnahit the mall and take pictures for the gram yall know I do it for the gram
When a man will search for hours to find something that is laying out in the open on a table. Items are often easily found by a women.
Man: "I have been searching for hours for keys."
Woman: "You mean the ones sitting there on the coffee table?"
Man: "Where?"
Woman: "Right there in the middle of that table."
Man: "oh, must have been Male Pattern Blindness"