When a woman lacks enthusiasm while giving a blow job, causing the man to stop the blow job, finish into his hand, and toss the cum into the woman's face in shame, yelling "SHAME CUM." This forever ruins the woman's reputation.
Man: "At least try to get into it!"
Woman: sigh...
Man: *removes penis from woman's mouth, jerks off into hand*
Woman: "What are you doing?"
Man: "SHAME CUM!" *tossing semen into woman's face*
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)