Related to backpussy and pussy-whipped. A gay enjoys his backpussy in his sexual relationships, but when he is being emotionally and socially dominated by his partner in every aspect of his life, unfortunately he is being backpussy-whipped.
Karen: I think Sam is really backpussy-whipped.
Stephen: I agree with you. His boyfriend forced him to go to the drag queen's convention.
Karen: Poor thing, that wig looked really bad on him.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.