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BDSMR

A peculiar sub-genre of ASMR, particularly present on youtube. involving a person, usually a woman creating ASMR of a vaguely sexual nature. often consumed/watched by desperate men, virgins, gooners, masochists, and other fans of the genre. language used in the videos often relates to BDSM culture or kink culture, hence, the name.

Combination of two terms:

ASMR - Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response; basically, quiet sounds to help you fall asleep.

BDSM - Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism. an overlapping abbreviation used to describe a kink for the afforementioned points. widely recognized and commonly used in sex for added pleasure

Popular creators: Sora ASMR, Mommy ASMR, AnniePants, Pillowdear ASMR, etc.

Associated phrases:

"Good boy"
"Mommy"
"Darling"
"Good job"
Person 1: Yo, I haven't been able to sleep for the past 3 days, do you have any recommendations?

Person 2: Try listening to BDSMR, it always helps me sleep.
by knowbdy April 13, 2024
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Teleporting BDSM Chad

A high value and incredibly attractive male who is typically a serial killer, into rough sex and BDSM and somehow able to teleport when the authorities show up to arrest him.
Why the fuck did they make Ted Bundy a teleporting BDSM Chad in American Boogeyman?
by Feridon Hamidi October 18, 2021
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BDSM

An overlapping abbreviation of Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS), Sadism and Masochism (SM).

Bondage - Tying up or restraining your consenting sexual partner. Usually the restraining is done by the dom (dominant) and the sub (submissive) is the one restrained with handcuffs, rope, leather, scarves, rubber, cling film, chains etc. Sexually arousing for some, as the exchange of power is exciting, and the helplessness of being bound allows some people to really let go and enjoy themselves. Also, having complete control over a willing partner is very arousing.

Discipline - Any activity in which one person trains another person to act or behave in a specified way, often by enforcing rigid codes of conduct or by inflicting punishment - i.e spanking - for failure to behave in the prescribed way.

Dominance - A person in BDSM who dominates a submissive person. Usually the one who disciplines or ties up the submissive person and/or the top (the person who ties up, punishes etc. the submissive person).

Submission - A person in BDSM who submits to a dominant person. A submissive can be a slave and/or the bottom (the person being tied up or whipped, etc.).

Sadism - The tendency to derive pleasure, especially sexual gratification, from inflicting pain, suffering, or humiliation on others.

Masochism - the tendency to derive pleasure, especially sexual gratification, from one's own pain or humiliation.
"I like BDSM."
by Magic kitty April 25, 2022
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BDSM

An overlapping abbrevation of Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS), Sadism and Masochism (SM).
Are you actually into doing BDSM or do you just carry that leather whip for show?
by Tanos May 14, 2003
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Beautiful Dogs Surrounding Me
When I went to the dog park, I had BDSM.
by fruutluup January 30, 2021
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With all this talk about 50 shades of greys... yeah, I agree... I'm totally in to BDSM as well!!! (Bored and Deprived Soccer Moms)
by cdn_kev February 21, 2015
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BDSM

About Bees. Probably something Castiel from Supernatural would say:

B - bees
D - do
S - so
M - much (for the environment)
Castiel: Did you know that BDSM!

Dean: Um Ok...
by CarryOnMyWaywardShips July 18, 2019
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