She now speaks fluent Manglish and gets too cold when the AC is on. She has learned to eat prawn heads, durian and tom yam - the process of Asianification is nearly complete.
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.