Asshole who uses
girls for his benefit. He starts off
sweet, makes you believe everything you wanna hear. He always lets you down but apologizes to continue demanding more "pics." He pretends to care but his actions
never prove any affection. He complains your tits arenât out enough since you need to show off your assets to other guys. He only sees you at night for sex and
never lets you sleep over. He shows up unexpected at night to get in your pants before goin
home to
bed. He cancels plans cuz heâs busy even if theyâre his idea. He forces you to listen to him bitch about the last girl and awful things she did over and over so you believe him. Later you realize he never actually tried when youâre forced to hear him vent how he tried with other women who blew him off.
Donât look past all this even if you care about him. He doesnât see anything wrong with how he treats you and wants to continue pulling off a kunkel with
girls. He trash talks friends, siblings, coworkers to feel better about himself. If you try to stand up to this asshole heâll deny it and try to turn it on you. He doesnât care and will wait til youâre at your worst (ie.
family dying, your birthday) to end it. When youâre crying in front of him heâll laugh at you as tears stream down your face. Heâll say he just needs
space and isnât saying itâs done forever so youâre sitting at
home waiting. Boys like this are egotistical assholes who canât be trusted and deserve nothing but the same in return.
Megan: âHe tells me he cares about me but why does he hold me to his exâs mistakes? I wasnât the one who left his sweatshirt receipt in the shopping
bag and stood him up on his birthday. He wouldnât spend time with me on his birthday because he said I could do the same thing to himâ
Maria: âIf he cared about you he wouldnât treat you that way. He should
never make you pay for someone elseâs mistakesâ
Megan: âSometimes he ignores me when I ask him to hang out, cancels his plans on me, and he cancelled a vacation 2 weeks before that was his idea because he is busy. What the hell is he âbusyâ with?
Maria: â
Maybe you
donât want to know what he was busy with. Heâs obviously using youâ
Megan: âHe showed up at my apartment unannounced last night at 10pm to sleep with me and then went right
homeâ
Maria: âHeâs an
ass. You canât let someone use you like thatâ
Megan: âHe refused to let me sleep at his
house,
even dating him for a year. I almost got in an accident multiple times driving home in
snow storms on his back roads. Whatâs wrong with me that he doesnât even care about that?â
Maria: âHeâs clearly a fuckboy who doesnât care and has no respect for you at all. You should
never let someone treat you that wayâ