A ginger person who tries to hide the fact that they are ginger by shooting their Bebo/MSN picture in monochrome mode, making them look like they have darkhair.
Person 1: "Look at Nick's bebo pic, it's black and white!"
Person 2: "He's just trying to hide his hair colour by making himself a black and white ginger"
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.