vanilla dom

(n.) - A vanilla dom, sometimes referred to as a “vanilla top” or “vanilla dom top,” is a dominant subtype in the BDSM lexicon. It’s usually associated withIn the gay male community, but not exclusively. Vanilla doms are generally characterized by sexual arousal and identity related to dominant behavior, sexual top position and traditional sexual roles within the gender binary. What makes them unique to the broader LGBT/BDSM community is their openness to monogamy and trend to a more heteronormative approach to relationships and life. They’re generally attracted submissive, smooth, younger partners. While it’s not absolute, generally they avoid classic (clamps, paddles, chains) BDSM gear, multiple partners, circuit parties, PNP, etc. Often they are high earners and avoid drugs and alcohol and value fitness, health and industriousness.

Look at that fit daddy. He must be a vanilla dom.

by woolfgunphotobooth August 27, 2020

Vanilla Dom

A person that pretends to be a Dom to get laid but are in reality, not actually into anything very kinky. They are generally not dangerous like the fake doms, just annoying and wildly disappointing. These people think the kink community equals easy to get laid. There can also be vanilla subs and Vanilla Dommes.

"He says he's a Dom but only seems to want sex and thinks flogging is abusive? He must be a vanilla dom."

by blueberryNcream June 9, 2021

vanilla domme

A vanilla domme is a new Twitter phenomenon of people looking to cash in on newbie BDSM enthusiasts without having a clue.

It means 'I don't understand domination or fetish play but want to be praised and given money anyway'

Sally bought a cheap catsuit on Ebay and is now setting up her vanilla domme onlyfans site.

by curiousx10 March 18, 2021

Vanilla Dome

When a man is recieving oral sex from a women, and right before ejaculation, the man pulls the women's head off of his penis, knees her in the face, then masturbates all over her.

"I gave the bitch a Vanilla Dome, then she died."

by Chim Ridgles March 23, 2007

Vanilla Dome

When a white female is orally pleasuring a man's penis

"Yo, man, I saw that bitch at the party, and she gave me Vanilla Dome! The shit was epic! No teeth!"

by valley girl joe September 5, 2009

Vanilla Dome

The third location in Super Mario World, but also a term that can refer to a place filled with only white people.

Randy: Wow, there are no blacks here in Burger King.
Dick: Yeah. This is a Vanilla Dome.
Randy: I get that reference.

by RockManZero3 March 15, 2020